Ukuntu mama wamugaye yeretse isi umwana we wibyorezo

Ubu ndatandukanye nuko nari meze igihe icyorezo cyatangiraga.Ntabwo nshaka kuvuga ko naretse kwambara maquillage ntangira kwambara amaguru nkumwambaro wanjye kumurimo no gukina, nubwo, yego, birakora. Byose byumvaga bitandukanye kuko Ninjiye mu cyorezo mfite umwana mwiza kandi ufite akamenyero ko kuryama nijoro, aho hari aho, hamwe nabatangabuhamya bake, nabaye mama nyawe. Hafi yumwaka umwe umuhungu wanjye avutse, kandi biracyatangaje kubona iyi nyito.Ndi kandi nzahora ndi mama wumuntu! Nzi neza ko ari ihinduka rikomeye kubabyeyi benshi, niba umwana wabo yavutse mugihe a icyorezo cyangwa sibyo, ariko kubwanjye, ibyantunguye ni ukubera ko bake cyane batigeze babona umuntu usa nuburambe bwababyeyi. Ndi umubyeyi wamugaye. By'umwihariko, Ndi mama wamugaye ukoresha igare ry’ibimuga ahantu henshi. Mbere yuko menya ko ntwite, igitekerezo cyo kuba umubyeyi cyarashobokaga kandi giteye ubwoba nkurugendo rwo mu kirere ku roketi yakorewe mu rugo. Bisa nkanjye sindi jyenyine udafite ibitekerezo. Kugeza mfite imyaka 33, sinkeka ko abaganga bari kugirana ikiganiro gikomeye nanjye kubyerekeye kubyara. Mbere yibyo, ikibazo cyanjye ubusanzwe cyarangwaga. "Ntabwo tuzabimenya tutaramenya", ndumva inshuro nyinshi. Kimwe mu gihombo kinini cyo kubyara mugihe cyicyorezo ni ukutabasha kumusangira nisi.Namufotoye amajana-ku mwenda wanditseho indimu, ku gitambaro cye, ku gituza cya se - maze mwoherereza ubutumwa bugufi. abantu bose nari nzi, nifuzaga cyane ko abandi bamubona yikubita hasi kandi akabyimba.Ariko kwikinga murugo nabyo byaduhaye ikintu.Bimpa ubuzima bwite kandi binyemerera kumenya ubukanishi bwababyeyi kuva aho nicaye.Nemerewe kwinjira byoroshye uru ruhare rutagenzuwe cyane cyangwa ibitekerezo bitakiriwe. Kugaragaza injyana yacu bisaba igihe no kwitoza.Nize kumukura hasi hasi mukibero cyanjye, kwinjira no gusohoka muburiri bwe, no kuzamuka no hejuru yumuryango wumwana - byose nta na abumva. Ubwa mbere najyanye Otto kureba muganga we ni mugihe yari afite ibyumweru bitatu kandi nari mfite ubwoba.Nubwa mbere nkina umwanya wa mama kumugaragaro.Nakuye imodoka yacu muri parikingi, ndamukura muri intebe y'imodoka, aramupfunyika. Yanyegereye mu nda.Ndusunika ku bitaro, aho valet yari ihagaze ku muryango w'imbere. Tumaze kuva mu igaraje, numvise amaso ye anguye.Ntabwo nzi icyo yatekerezaga - birashoboka ko namwibukije umuntu, cyangwa wenda yibuka ko yibagiwe kugura amata mu iduka. Ibyo ari byo byose. ibisobanuro inyuma yimvugo ye, ntabwo byahinduye kumva ko guhanga amaso kwe kudahwema kuntera kumva ko tunyuze hejuru ye, nkaho yashakaga ko ntera umwana wanjye kuri beto umwanya uwariwo wose.Nemereye gusohora ikizere natangiye. guteranira murugo.Nzi icyo nkora.Afite umutekano hamwe nanjye. Yarebye intambwe zose zurugendo rwacu, yunamye ijosi kugirango aturebe kugeza igihe tuzimiye imbere. Kwinjira neza mubitaro ntibyasaga nkibimwemeza ubushobozi bwanjye; yongeye kutwitegereza igihe Otto arangije kudusuzuma agasubira mu igaraje.Mu byukuri, ubugenzuzi bwe bwabaye igitabo cyabashinzwe kumushiraho. Buri gihe, nasubiye inyuma ku modoka yacu. Tutitaye kubushake, buri mwanya tumara kumugaragaro wicaye hejuru yamateka ateye impungenge ntashobora kwirengagiza. Ntabwo guhura kwumuntu utazi numva ari bibi.Bamwe ni beza, nkumusore uri muri lift asetsa kuri Otto yerekana neza yicaye munsi yingofero ye itukura kandi afite icyatsi kibisi gisohoka hejuru, tugomba gusobanura ko umwe mubanyeshuri banjye yaboshye. ingofero ye "Tom-Otto". Hariho ibihe biteye urujijo, nkigihe twajyanye Otto muri parike kunshuro yambere - mugenzi wanjye Micah yamusunikiraga muri pram ndikuzunguruka - umugore uhanyuze areba Otto, aranyereka. "Yabikoze? uzigera winjira mu modoka yawe kuri ibi? " yarabajije. Nacecetse, ndumirwa. Yaba yarantekereje nkimbwa yumuryango, nkina uruhare rwihariye rwigikinisho cya animasiyo kumuhungu wanjye? Bimwe mubisubizo twatugiriye neza, nko kumbona kwimurira Otto mumodoka nkabakozi bashinzwe isuku yapakiye imyanda yacu mu gikamyo cyabo no gukoma amashyi nkaho namufashe hamwe na Landing yijimye yijimye yometse ku mashoka atatu.Muri icyo gihe, umuhango wari warabaye imbyino isanzwe kuri twe, nubwo bitoroshye. Ese koko turi ibintu nk'ibi? Tutitaye kubushake, buri mwanya tumara kumugaragaro wicaye hejuru yamateka ateye impungenge ntashobora kwirengagiza. Ababana nubumuga bahura nimbogamizi zo kurerwa, kubura uburera, guhatirwa no kuboneza urubyaro ku gahato. Uyu murage wa kurwana kugirango mbonwe nkumubyeyi wizewe kandi ukwiye uzengurutse impande zose zimikoranire mfite.Ninde ushidikanya kubushobozi bwanjye bwo kurinda umuhungu wanjye umutekano? Ninde ushaka ibimenyetso byerekana ko ntitaweho? Buri mwanya hamwe nabari hafi ni akanya nkeneye kwerekana. .Nubwo utekereza kumara nyuma ya saa sita muri parike bituma umubiri wanjye uhangayika. Ndagerageza kumvisha Otto ko icyo dukeneye ari ubuvumo bwiza aho dushobora kubuza abumva kure no kwitwaza ko igituba cyacu ari isanzure ryose.Mu gihe cyose dufite papa, FaceTime, gufata, hamwe no kwiyuhagira buri munsi, turi byakozwe.Kuki ibyago bishobora gucirwa urubanza nabi mugihe dushobora guhunga rwose ibitekerezo? Otto ntiyabyemeye, bikabije, byihuse kuruta uko nari nzi ko umwana afite igitekerezo.Yarekuye induru ndende cyane nk'icyayi, atangaza aho itetse, kugira ngo ahoshe gusa asize imipaka y'urugo rwacu ruto. Mu mezi, yavuze. hanze yisi yagutse nkumuganwakazi wa Disney uhangayitse.Icyuka mumaso ye mugitondo cyanteye gutekereza ko ashaka kuzunguruka munsi yikirere maze aririmbana nabantu batazi kumasoko. Iyo yicaye bwa mbere mucyumba hamwe na mubyara we Sam - we ubwe urenze umwana - Otto araturika aseka ntitwigeze tumwumva.Yerekeje umutwe ku ruhande maze agenda neza yerekeza kuri Sam, ntarenze a santimetero nke mumaso ye - "Uri umunyakuri?" yasaga nkaho abaza.Yashyize ikiganza cye ku itama rya Sam, maze umunezero urarengerwa.Sam ntiyanyeganyega, amaso aragutse, yatangajwe no kwibanda. Akanya kararyoshye, ariko ububabare bworoshye bwazamutse mu gituza cyanjye.Mu buryo butangaje, natekereje, "Ntukunde cyane! Ntushobora gukundwa inyuma!" Otto ntabwo yari azi gupima reaction ya Sam.Ntabwo yamenye ko Sam atasubije. Umwana wanjye aradukura muri coco kandi akemera ko dusohoka mwisi. Igice cyanjye ndashaka ko azenguruka - umva urusaku rwinshi rwabantu benshi kumpande ya parade, impumuro yizuba ryizuba hamwe na chlorine muri pisine rusange yo koga, umva icyumba cyuzuyemo abantu baririmba.Ariko Otto ntiyigeze yumva ko kubona isi bivuze kuboneka.Ntabwo azi icyo ari cyo kugenzurwa, gucirwa urubanza, kutumva nabi.Ntabwo yari azi nabi. kandi ntibimworoheye byaba hamwe nkumuntu.Ntabwo azi guhangayikishwa no kuvuga ibitari byo, kwambara ibitari byo, gukora ibitari byo. Nigute namwigisha gutinyuka? Haguruka wenyine wenyine iyo u ibitekerezo byabandi birasakuza kandi birahari hose? Menya ingaruka zikwiye gufata? Kwirinda? Nigute namwigisha ikintu niba ntarabimenya ubwanjye? Mugihe ubwonko bwanjye buzengurutse ingaruka nibihembo byo kuva murugo, mugihe mvugana ninshuti, mugihe nasomye Twitter, mbona ko atari njye wenyine ufite ubwoba bwo kongera kwinjira mukibuga. Benshi muritwe dufite umwanya tutarebye kuri ubwambere mubuzima bwacu, kandi biraduhindura-biduha amahirwe yo kugerageza imvugo yuburinganire, kuruhura imibiri yacu, no gukora imyitozo itandukanye nakazi. Nigute dushobora kurinda ibyo bice bishya byacu ubwacu mugihe dusubiye mubintu bisanzwe? ? Birasa nkikibazo kitigeze kibaho, ariko muburyo bumwe, ibi nibibazo bimwe twabajije kuva iyi ndwara yanduye. Nigute dushobora kwirinda umutekano kandi tugakomeza guhuza? Iterabwoba rishobora gufata uburyo butandukanye, ariko amakimbirane hagati kwifuza no guhangayika wumva umenyerewe. Amezi make mu cyorezo, mama yatangije umuryango we wa buri cyumweru Zoom.Buri wa kabiri nyuma ya saa sita, we na bashiki banjye duhurira kuri ecran kumasaha abiri.Nta gahunda cyangwa inshingano. Rimwe na rimwe turatinda, cyangwa mumodoka , cyangwa muri parike. Rimwe na rimwe twagombaga guceceka kuko inyuma hari umwana urira (yewe muraho, Otto!), ariko twakomeje kwigaragaza, icyumweru nicyumweru.Turashiraho kandi tugahumuriza, turarira tunatanga inama, turababara kandi shyira hamwe. Nigute namwigisha gutinyuka? Haguruka wenyine mugihe ibitekerezo byabandi ari byinshi kandi biboneka hose? Umunsi umwe wo kuwakabiri nyuma ya saa sita, ubwo narimo ntegura gahunda yo kubonana nundi muganga muri Otto, narekuye valve kugira ngo ngabanye impungenge zanjye zo kwisuzumisha buri gihe.Nari ntegerezanyije amatsiko urugendo rugufi kuva mu igaraje kugera mu bitaro, kandi ubwoba bwinshi. byarushagaho kuba bibi.Nzabura ibitotsi amajoro make mbere yitariki, nsubiramo kwibuka kwibuka, nkagerageza gutekereza ibitekerezo byanyuze mubitekerezo byanjye atureba, mpangayikishijwe nuko ubutaha Otto agiye kurira.Noneho iki? azabikora? Ibi nabibwiye umuryango wanjye hirya no hino kuri ecran nkoresheje umuhogo kandi amarira atemba mu maso.Nkimara kubivuga mu ijwi riranguruye, sinashoboraga kwizera ko ntabazanye vuba.Uburuhukiro bwo kubumva gusa umva bituma uburambe bwumva ko ari buto.Bashimangiye ubushobozi bwanjye, bemeza igitutu, kandi byose narabyiboneye. Bukeye bwaho, ubwo ninjiraga muri parikingi yamenyereye, terefone yanjye yuzuyemo ubutumwa bugufi. "Turi kumwe wowe! " baravuze. Ubufatanye bwabo bwanteye umusego hafi yanjye ubwo nakuraga Otto ku ntebe ye y'imodoka, nkamukenyera mu gituza, maze nkadusunika ku bitaro. Iyo ngabo ni yo yanshimishije cyane muri icyo gitondo. Mugihe na Otto nitonze twateye intambwe zabo za mbere kuriyi si, nifuzaga ko natuzenguruka ibituba byacu, guhamagara igihe kirekire, ntitaye kubantu bareba, kandi nkaba indakoreka.Ariko sinkeka ko arikibazo nshobora kugikemura. rwose ku giti cyanjye.Nkuko icyorezo kitwiyerekana, duhujwe ku buryo budasubirwaho.Hari byinshi cyane dushobora gukora kugirango twirinde; dufite umutekano iyo dushyize imbere ubuzima bwabaturage bacu bose.Nibutse ibyo twakoze byose kugirango turinde mugenzi wawe umwaka ushize - kuguma murugo bishoboka, kwambara masike, kurinda intera yacu kugirango twese tugire umutekano .Byukuri, ntabwo abantu bose.Ntabwo ntuye mugihugu cya unicorn hamwe numukungugu urabagirana.Ariko benshi muritwe twize kwishakira icumbi imbere yiterabwoba. Kurebera hamwe iki giterane gikorana bintera kwibaza ikindi kindi twakubaka hamwe nubuhanga bushya twize mwishyamba. Turashobora kongera gukora imyitozo imwe yo kwita kubuzima bwacu bwamarangamutima? Byaba bimeze bite kugirango duhuze umwanya kugirango buri wese ahinduke? ? Guhura udategereje ko ibintu byose bigomba kureba, kumvikana, kwimuka cyangwa kuguma kimwe? Wibuke umunsi wose - mumibiri yacu - bisaba akaga kangahe kugirango ugaragare, tutibagiwe no kurwanya ingano? Twe na Micah, Otto twatangiye umuco mbere yo kuva munzu burimunsi.Twahagararaga kumuryango, dushiraho inyabutatu nto, kandi dusomana. Hafi nkumurozi urinda, imyitozo yoroshye.Nizere ko twigisha Otto gutinyuka kandi ubwoko; kwihagararaho mu rusaku rwose no guha umwanya abandi; gufata ibyago byiza no guha abandi ibirenge byoroshye; gushiraho imipaka no kubahiriza aho abandi bagarukira.