Hamwe no kuza k'umwana, igihe kirageze cyo kwakira ubumuga bwanjye

Nkumubyeyi ushobora kuba ufite ubumuga bwubwonko, nagerageje kwitegura, ariko kubyara byihutirwa byampaye amasomo yo guhanuka. Nyuma yo gusoma abana benshi batwara abana kuri enterineti, sinashoboye kubona imwe yemerera guhambira umwana mu gituza n'ukuboko kumwe gusa. Mu mezi make, umugore wanjye Lisa azabyara umwana wambere, kandi ndashaka umutwara mwiza kugirango unkureho amaganya nkumugore utwite ufite ubumuga bwubwonko. Nagerageje imishumi itatu yerekanwe mububiko, imwe yari iyakabiri, indi igurwa kumurongo, wasaga nkinyundo nto. Gukosora kimwe muricyo cyose ukoresheje ukuboko kwawe kwi bumoso ntabwo ari amahitamo-kandi gukenera guhambira imyenda myinshi hamwe bisa nkurwenya rukabije. Nyuma yo kubasubiza mububiko, amaherezo nemeye ko Lisa yari akeneye kumfasha guhambira umwana wumuhungu wumukandara. Ku myaka 32, CP yanjye irashobora kugenzurwa igihe kinini. Nubwo ikirenge cyanjye cyiburyo gishobora kugabanuka, ndashobora kugenda njyenyine. Mushiki wanjye yanyigishije guhambira inkweto nkiri ingimbi, kandi nize gutwara imodoka nkoresheje ibikoresho byo guhuza n'imiterere mfite imyaka 20. Nubwo bimeze bityo, ndacyandika ukuboko kumwe. Nubwo imbogamizi za buri munsi, namaze imyaka myinshi ngerageza kwibagirwa ko mfite ubumuga, kandi kugeza vuba aha sinirengagije guhishurira CP yanjye bamwe mu nshuti zanjye magara kubera gutinya urubanza. Igihe twakundana bwa mbere hashize imyaka umunani, byantwaye ukwezi kubibwira Lisa. Nyuma yo kugerageza guhisha ikiganza cyiburyo kigoramye kandi gihora gifatanye mubuzima bwanjye bwose, ubu niyemeje kwemera byimazeyo ubumuga bwanjye mugihe Lisa atwite. Nagarutse ku buvuzi bw'umubiri bwa mbere kuva mu bwana kugira ngo nige ubuhanga bushya, nko guhindura impapuro n'amaboko yombi, kugira ngo nshobore kwitegura ku mubiri umwana wanjye wa mbere. Ni ngombwa kandi kuri njye kubona kwemerwa mu mubiri wanjye wamugaye, ntanga urugero rwo kwikunda umuhungu wanjye Nowa. Nyuma y'amezi make duhiga, Lisa yaje kubona akabuto ka BabyBjörn, umuvuzi wanjye kandi natekerezaga ko aribwo buryo bwiza. Umukandara ufite uduce tworoshye, clips, hamwe nuduto duto. Nshobora kubikosora ukuboko kumwe, ariko ndacyakeneye ubufasha kugirango nkosore. Ndateganya kugerageza ubwikorezi bushya nibindi bikoresho byo guhuza n'imihindagurikire ya Lisa nyuma yuko umuhungu wacu ageze. Icyo ntari niteze nukuntu byari bigoye kurera umwana nkumuntu wamugaye na mbere yuko umuhungu wanjye asubira murugo. Kubyara kubabaza no kwihutirwa nyuma yo kubyara bivuze ko nagombaga kwita kuri Nowa muminsi ibiri yambere yubuzima ntabifashijwemo na Lisa. Nyuma yamasaha 40 yo kubyara-harimo amasaha ane yo gusunika, hanyuma mugihe umuganga wa Lisa yemeje ko Nowa akomanze, hakozwe C-igice cyihutirwa-umwana wacu yaje kuri iyi si afite ubuzima bwiza, afite imisatsi miremire kandi myiza- —Ibi ni umwenda wukuri ko muganga yavugije induru mugihe cyo kubaga. Lisa yasekeje n'umuforomokazi ubwo yakusanyaga ibimenyetso by'ingenzi mu gace gakira, maze ngerageza kuzamura umwana wanjye ukuboko kwanjye kw'iburyo kugira ngo nyina abone imisaya ye yuzuye amababi iruhande rwacu. Nibanze ku gukomeza amaboko yanjye ahamye, kubera ko CP yanjye yatumye uruhande rwanjye rw'iburyo rugira intege nke kandi rukagabanuka, ku buryo ntigeze mbona abaforomo benshi batangira kwuzura icyumba. Abaforomo bagize impungenge igihe bagerageza guhagarika gutakaza amaraso. Narebye ntishoboye, ngerageza gutuza induru ya Nowa ndyamye ku kuboko kwanjye kw'iburyo guhinda umushyitsi n'umubiri we muto. Lisa yasubiye munsi ya anesteziya kugirango umuganga ashobore kwerekana aho ava amaraso maze akora operasiyo yo guhagarika amaraso. Jye n'umuhungu wanjye twoherejwe mu cyumba cyo kubyariramo twenyine, mu gihe Lisa we yagiye mu kigo nderabuzima kugira ngo akurikirane. Bukeye bwaho, azakira ibice bitandatu byo guterwa amaraso hamwe na plasma ebyiri. Muganga wa Lisa yakomeje gusubiramo ko igihe yimuriwe mu cyumba cyo kubyara nyuma y'iminsi ibiri muri ICU, bishimiye kumubona ari muzima. Muri icyo gihe, jye na Nowa twenyine. Nyirabukwe yifatanije natwe mu masaha yo gusura, amfasha gusa igihe bibaye ngombwa, kandi ampa umwanya wo gusimbuza Nowa igihe ukuboko kwanjye kw'iburyo gufunze ku bushake. Nzi neza ko imirongo nayo izagira akamaro, nubwo ntari niteze kuyipakurura mugihe uhinduye ikariso. Mu ntebe yinyeganyeza y'ibitaro, ukuboko kwanjye kw'iburyo kwari kumanitse intege kubera ko nasanze ukuntu ukuboko kwanjye kutagereranywa kwatumaga Nowa ahagarara, maze ndamuterura ndamugaburira ukuboko kwanjye kw'ibumoso-Nahise mbisanga munsi y'inkokora yanjye y'iburyo Gufata umusego no kwishingikiriza ku mwana kugeza injira ukuboko kwunamye ninzira nzira. Umufuka wa pulasitike ufite agacupa k'icupa urashobora gufungura amenyo yanjye, kandi nize gufata icupa hagati y'urwasaya n'ijosi mugihe ndimo kumutora. Mu myaka mike ishize, amaherezo nahagaritse kwirinda ibibazo bijyanye na CP yanjye. Iyo umuntu yazamuye ukuboko ntashobora gusubiza, navuze gusa ko mfite ubumuga. Icyumba cyo kubyara ntabwo ari ahantu hateye impungenge ku bumuga bwanjye, ndamenyesha rero umuforomo wese uza kureba kuri Nowa ko mfite CP Imipaka yanjye iragaragara cyane kuruta mbere hose. Nka papa wamugaye, ababyeyi banjye bazagira intege nke cyane. Nkunze gufatwa nkumuntu udafite ubumuga, kandi birababaje kubaho hagati yibyo abantu benshi batekereza ko ari ibisanzwe kandi bakeneye ubufasha. Ariko, muminsi ibiri tumaze muri kiriya cyumba cyo gutanga, nari nizeye ko nshoboye kurera Nowa no kwirwanaho. Ku cyumweru izuba ryinshi nyuma y'ibyumweru bike Lisa asohotse mu bitaro, yashyize Nowa mu cyuma, cyari kimpambiriye ku rutugu no mu gituza hagati y’icyuma. Nkoresha ukuboko kwanjye kw'iburyo, nkuko nabyize mu bitaro, kugira ngo mumufate mu mwanya, mu gihe ukuboko kwanjye kw'ibumoso guhambiriye hejuru. Muri icyo gihe, Lisa yagerageje gusunika amaguru ya Nowa anyuze mu mwobo muto ntagera. Amaze gukaza umurongo wanyuma, twariteguye. Nyuma yimyitozo tunyuze mubyumba, njye na Lisa twakoze urugendo rurerure mumujyi wacu. Nowa yaryamye mu mukandara wicaye ku musego wanjye, umutekano n'umutekano. Christopher Vaughan numwanditsi ukora no gutangaza ibinyamakuru. Yabana n'umugore we n'umuhungu we i Tarrytown, muri New York